THE DESEXUALIZATION OF THE AMERICAN MARRIAGE/WAY TO LEAVE YOUR LOVING: THE DANGER OF MARRYING THE RIGHT PERSON
Super Marital Sex Rule: The strongest marriages, the super se marriages, will always be the most challenged marriages, because the spouses will develop characteristics that attract interest froi others. This outside interest challenges the super marriage to continued development and enhancement. The super marriage dot not compete with outside temptations, but provides a growing place for both growing partners.
She doesn’t have a thing to worry about. She is married to such a dip that she will never get rid of him. Nobody in her right mind would want him. Now, Jerry, that’s another matter. He is everybody’s dream. I don’t trust my best friend. They’d take him in a minute.
WIFE
If you are married to an insensitive, mean, abusive, arrogant, unreasonable, unromantic fool, relax. At least you are not in competition with anyone for your spouse. On the other hand, if you are married to a caring, kind, responsive, warm, dedicated spouse look around; there may be somebody out there moving in on him or her. One of the saddest paradoxes among the thousand couple was the fact that the persons you would assume to be the best of all spouses sometimes became involved outside the marriage. If no actually interacting sexually, they were at least flirting with the possibility.
Recent reports indicate that increasing numbers of single women are actively seeking relationships with married men. They have tired of the game of courtship, feeling that “the best are gone b now.” They refuse what they see as leftovers, and have compromised by sharing a man with another woman.
It follows that the new professional woman may find single ma who want to share her with her husband. Not only a good man, bit a good woman is hard to find, and when they are found, everyone is interested. This problem puts an additional burden on an ahead) stressed American marriage.
Until American marriage learns that familiarity can breed a sexual interest beyond that possible with new partners, it will continue to be threatened instead of enhanced by our new and less restricted gender interactions. Good partners should stimulate, not pressure good marriages.
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